Sunday, August 12, 2018

Pinebloom and a Man Named B.B. Gray


PINEBLOOM: Homeplace of BB and Ellen Gray
photo credit: Collection of Rita and Rebecca Gray

Fate is a funny thing.  It can place people into your lives that you have never encountered who turn out to be someone you needed to have met a long time ago. Such is the case with this edition of my family history.  I haven't posted about my genealogy in awhile because, quite frankly, I lost a bit of interest.  Not because I wasn't curious, but I seemed to have been at a crossroads with the research.  Brick walls, if you will.  That is until I contacted someone on a genealogy website who would turn out to not only be a wealth of information, but also a cousin I didn't know I had. It is through this 'luck of the draw' inquiry that I have met my kindred spirit in uncovering family roots.

When I first began researching my maternal grandmother,
Elizabeth Gray Gibbs, I uncovered a lot of information about a very successful family whose American origins I had been able to trace back to the 1690's.  They have an interesting history of success in the lumber business.  
Through census records, I have been able to trace movements of my direct lineage within the Gray family as they settled in areas where lumber and land were plentiful to set up shop and in some cases, assist in developing the surrounding area or towns.  One town which benefited from the Gray lumber business was a little place called Willacoochee in SE Georgia. It was here that my 2nd great grandfather, B.B. Gray, built a home called Pinebloom.  
I have many roots associated with Willacoochee, but when it came to the Gray side of the family, I came up empty with only little bits and pieces falling into my lap.  It left me wanting to know more.  Where was Pinebloom located?  Was it still there? What happened to it? After exhausted searches and no answers, I gave up. That is until that fateful online inquiry.

With that said, I dedicate this post to my new found cousins, Rita and Rebecca Gray.  Without their help, this post would not have been possible.  Most of the research revealed here is due to their efforts. It rekindled the fire and I have since been able to add to their research and finally complete the story of Pinebloom. So to them, I will be forever grateful. Thank you Rita and Rebecca!!


              
            Benjamin Benchley Gray I
             photo credit: Rita and Rebecca Gray

         
           Ellen Sophia Furlong Gray

Benjamin Benchley (B.B.) Gray I 

Briefly, Benjamin Benchley Gray (B.B.) was born in 1848 in Gray Station, Herkimer County, New York.  He was the son of Henry Pendleton Gray and Lucina Benchley Gray.  Henry's father, Latham Gray,  was key in the development of this area. He started a lumber mill and the town grew around the mill.  The name of the town was eventually shortened to Gray, NY.  Many Gray family members are buried in the Fairview Cemetery in Herkimer.   The 1860 census shows  Henry, Lucina and 4 children, including BB, had moved to Taylor Co., Georgia.   Not exactly sure what brought them to Georgia, but the theory is that the Grays were looking for an area with an abundant amount of timber which could be processed into railroad ties for the expanding rail system in our country. B.B. Gray would be crucial in the development of railroad lines in southern Georgia.

1899 map showing location of Pinebloom

The History of Pinebloom 

The story of Pinebloom would not be possible without the influence of B.B. Gray. The following is an almost complete history of B.B. Gray's life. He was a fascinating man who had a knack for starting successful businesses as well as gaining respect and admiration from those who knew and worked with him. 
Sources: Rita and Rebecca Gray, Newspapers articles, and hours of online research!

1875- 1920
B.B. Gray, the Business Man

Without getting too deep in the weeds of facts, dates, and figures, I will try to condense the life of B.B. Gray and his success as Lumberman/Railroad developer, to create a picture of the man.This is not an easy task, as many new things have been uncovered and added.  This timeline will begin with B.B. and Ellen's move to Millwood, Ga. from Brunswick in or around 1875.

   It was here that records indicate B.B. had a sawmill just outside of Millwood on the B & A (Brunswick & Albany) Rail line. Over the next four decades, B.B., along with his brothers,  would acquire a few sawmills and a lot of acreage in the area which were also on or adjacent to  rail lines.  The sawmills would be known as B.B. Gray & Brother and Gray & Gatchel sawmills.  They would eventually merge to form The Gray Lumber Co.

By 1880, B.B. and Ellen still lived in Millwood with a growing family of 6 children.  It was in this year that B.B. took ownership of W.W. Colquitt's sawmill in an area known as  Pinebloom outside of Willacoochee, GA.  He  purchases land adjacent to this sawmill which would be the future homesite of their home, also called Pinebloom. The Gray Lumber Co. sawmills would be large processors of timber.  The sawmills would process between 40,000 - 60,000 board feet a day!  It was a lucrative business during this time.


Picture of typical sawmill at the time. Photo credit: railga.com

Around 1896 - Pinebloom, the house, is completed, which is a good thing because their brood now numbers a whopping 13 children!  The house is a grand 2-story 9 room house with heart pine throughout and wrap around porches on each level. According to family stories, my grandmother Elizabeth, rode her tricycle on the 2nd story porch as a child.  There was also a secret hideaway room upstairs!  Oh, if those walls could talk!!  I would listen, wouldn't you?

1903 - B.B. receives a patent for a lumber seasoning apparatus.  Not only was he savvy with his business dealings, but he and his sons were quite mechanical and inventive.  
BB Gray Patent

The following link will take you to a great news article from 1903 about a day in the life of B.B. Gray and paints a picture of a man very well respected by the reporter and the employees at the sawmill. It also speaks of the family dynamic and how mechanically inclined all of the Gray men were and how well they worked together.  It's a great read.

link:  Gray's New Dry Kiln in Operation




1905 - As the lumber business grew, so did the need to expand rail lines in the area.  BB was key in this endeavor.  Through land purchases and development of tram roads, BB would apply for a charter of the Ocilla, Pinebloom, and Valdosta RR and proposes construction of a 70 mile rail line through these towns.  The initial capital investment for the railroad was a sum of $200,000. 


Picture of a typical railroad depot.  This may have been similar to the one at Pinebloom.

The following is an article reporting charter of OP&V from the Tifton Gazette dated April 27, 1905


"Willacoochee Ga, April 27 - The stockholders of the Ocilla, Pinebloom and Valdosta railroad held a meeting yesterday at Pinebloom, and organized by electing Geo. F. McCranie chairman, and J.S. Cochran secretary.
The new charter of the road was approved, and the following directors were elected: B.B. Gray, J.H. Gray, B.W. Gray, C.E. Gray, E.F. Gray Geo. F. McCranie, J.L. Cochran, J.B. O'Berry and Henry Paulk.
The stockholders' meeting was then adjourned and the directors elected the following officers:
President: B.B. Gray
First Vice President: J.H. Gray
Second Vice President: B.W. Gray
Secretary: J.L. Cochran
Treasurer: C.E. Gray
This completes the organization and places the property in a position where contemplated sale can legally be made."

Note: Highlighted text is the result of web search.  Also unclear if J.S. Cochran and J.L. Cochran are the the same person.  Possible typo.
Link: History of OPV Railway



OP & V Railroad Co. Timetable ca. 1903.  The line traveled from Nashville to Willacoochee.

Tough Economic Times Come to Pinebloom

As with any business, hard financial and economic times can bring an end to the prosperity once enjoyed by its industry leaders.  Such was the case in 1908 when the lumber industry suffered under increased government regulations of inspections of sawmills.  An article in the Tifton Gazette wrote of a  gathering of lumbermen in Tifton stating that sawmills were producing half of what they once were, causing a worrisome situation.  By 1912, Gray Lumber Co. was operating at a loss and by 1913 filed for bankruptcy, owing $150,000 to creditors and investors.  


 
News Article announcing Gray Lumber Co. files for bankruptcy.  Source: Tifton Gazette 1913

In February, 1915, Gray Lumber Co. sells through trustees to Henry P. Talmadge of NY for $13K.  Mr. Talmadge then turns around and sells it back to B.B. and Ellen's son, Edward for $2300.  It is not known if Mr. Talmadge was a family friend or family member from NY to make such a deal. But his name is mentioned in several news articles when dealing with bankruptcies  and other settlements.

By 1920, the Georgia Railroad Commission lists OP&V Railroad as dismantled and lists its successor road, Willacoochee & DuPont, as a 9.5 mile line between Willacoochee and Shaw's Still. However, the partially built-out OP&V line would become the foundation for the very successful Georgia and Florida Rail Line.

According to B.B.'s son, Benjamin William Gray, his father would retire after this bankruptcy, but still dabble in other 'odds and ends'. One other business I found interesting was in Brunswick.  B.B. ventured into a boat taxi service which carried passengers  from St. Simons Island over to Brunswick.  Once off the boat, passengers could then take a train into the city of Brunswick and spend the day. St. Simons was a haven for the rich, so I imagine this was a well-used service.  If air travel was around in his time, I have a feeling he would have gambled on that as well.
 
The following article (link) appeared in the Tifton Gazette on August 18, 1916.  It tells of the visit by a reporter from the Brunswick Times to Pinebloom in 1892.  Thought it was a great way to end this timeline and reminisce of life at the sawmill.






B.B. Gray, The Community Man

From numerous newspaper articles written during his lifetime, the one phrase which always appears is 'respected citizen'.  Outside of his business ventures, B.B. did a lot for the community he so loved. 

1886 - He petitions Congress to pass the Blair Education Bill.   Motivated by concern for the plight of former slaves in the South, the bill proposed 
$77 million in federal funds for public schools be distributed to the states, proportionate to their illiteracy rates (which were much higher in the South), over several years.

1897- Pinebloom is becoming its own self-sustaining town with a population of 137 people.  A post office, chapel, mercantile, and some housing is built on the  site around the sawmill for employees.  B.B. is named Postmaster of the P.O.

1904- BB runs unsuccessfully for state representative of Coffee County.  He is defeated by 200 votes to a Mr. Sweat.  An amusing footnote here is how B.B. entered the race.  Dr. Jefferson Wilcox was intially going to run but because of health reasons, namely deafness. B.B. was asked to run in his place. 

1905- Builds first and only 3-story building in Willacoochee. The lot was purchased for $450 and measured 31' x 70'.  Guess that's why it had to be built up and not out. The lot was sold to B.B by Mr. J.J. Vickers and was located "on the corner west of Mr. Vickers' store". The first two floors housed offices and other businesses.  The third floor was the Masonic Lodge in which B.B. was named High Priest.  It was a simple red brick building with a carved sandstone placard which bore B.B.'s name.  Sadly, it was torn down in the mid 1970's. 

This is the building which once housed the Vickers store.
The Masonic Lodge Building is the 3-story building on the left. Only known photo, even though it's not much.  We take what we can get. Source: Tamara Gibbs

1905 -  B.B. offers to put in a system of electric lights to the town of Willacoochee as long as enough citizens and businesses take part in the endeavor.

 The rail lines built by BB allows the population of Willacoochee to from 471 in 1900 to almost 1000 in 1910. He employees many men, black or white, through his 40 years of business in rail and lumber.  

1926 -  B.B. Gray passes away at the age of 78 on Sept 6th at Pinebloom. Many people of all races and background attended his funeral to pay their respects to a man well admired.  He is buried in the Willacoochee City Cemetery next to his wife Ellen, who died in 1936.

The following obituaries of BB and Ellen speak to the respect and admiration the community had for these two pillars of the area. 
Source: The collection of Rita and Rebecca Gray




 This is an abbreviated version of B.B.'s obituary with highlights of his life:

"Mr. B.B. Gray died at his home in Pine Bloom Monday morning at six o'clock after a long illness."

"Mr. Gray was a pioneer railroad builder in this country, having built the Georgia and Florida railroad from Satilla River to Nashville, as well as other lines which operated for awhile, but were finally abandoned.  He sold the segment of the Georgia and Florida which he built when that company was organized and this sale left him a rich man in that day, he being worth at that time nearly a million dollars.  He immediately commenced the construction of other lines which he could not commercialize and in which he lost most of his fortune."


"He was generous to a fault and his whole soul was in the development of this section.  He employed thousands of men in his day.........at his funeral was a long line of aged colored men and women who were given the opportunity to file past his bier, most of them weeping as they looked for the last time in the face of the man who had done so many kind deeds for them.

One old negro said as he passed along " I have worked for many a man in my day, but he was the best one of all." "

At the time of his death, he was survived by his wife, Ellen and 9 of his children, one brother and one sister.






    May 14, 1936, The Douglas Enterprise    

"Mrs. B.B. Gray, one of the pioneers of this section of the state, died at the age of 82 at the home of her daughter, Mrs. E.R. Bullard of Varnesville, SC, last Monday morning following an illness of several days. Her advanced age hastened the death.                            
The remains were brought to Douglas Tuesday morning and funeral services were held Tuesday afternoon at 4 o'clock at the graveside in Willacoochee cemetery, the family burial grounds, conducted by Rev. Ivey.  Interment followed beside her late husband."                               
The deceased is survived by three sons, three daughters and numerous other relatives throughout Atkinson and
 Coffee Counties.                           
"There was a large attendance at the funeral Tuesday which spoke of the love and esteem in which the deceased was held."                                




Headstones of B.B. and Mrs. B.B. (Ellen) Gray, Willacoochee City Cemetery

As I stated, Rita and Rebecca Gray have provided some wonderful momentos which have made this post possible.  I will end B.B and Ellen's lifestory with a note written by their son, Benjamin William Gray.  Around 1950,  before he died in 1957, Ben W. took the time to write down his thoughts and memories about his parents.  Those notes were transcribed this past year by Rita and Rebecca:


"Father"

"B.B. Gray, soon after coming south with his family, entered into the manufacturing of lumber and was for years successful.  But lost out in 1914 and retired from work, but often returned for little odds and ends.  He was a father to the poor, and a great help to the farmers of Coffee County.  There are many dwellings in Coffee County that bear his lumber works.  He belonged to, and loved, the Masonic Lodge.  He was highly respected and thought of by all.  He was a great financier, until more modern ways came about.  He was the builder and owner of five or six sawmills, planing mills, railroads, etc.  The Georgia and Florida stands today for some of his work.  This road was built of short lines of which his tram road from Satilla River to Nashville, Georgia is a part.  Another road, Ocilla, Pinebloom, & Valdosta, was never finished, but was the beginning of his railroading.  This road was intended for the above places, but the G & F seemed to have headed in on it.  Only one of his buildings stands today, the Masonic Lodge of Willacoochee.   It was built and presented to the Willacoochee Lodge, as a memoir of his love for the order.  He was a good mechanic, had good shops for rebuilding anything needed in saw milling.  He often passed some of his time at real mechanics work, so as to put thought to his business."


"Mother"

"Ellen S. Gray was a great mother, and highly respected by her large family.  She was never too tired to fix for them, and was a great cook and home maker. She had a heart for the unfortunate.  No one left her house hungry, regardless of race or color. 'Excess away' was her motto in all things, but no one felt the effects of it while at the dining table."   



What happened to the Pinebloom House?

Stories abound about what happened to Pinebloom.  Some say it became derelict and fell down.  Others say it burned down.  Here is what really happened:

A year after Ellen's death in 1937, the house and 130 acres surrounding it were sold to Caulie Sutton.  The Suttons did not live in the house, but farmed or leased the land. It did however, become a bit of a hangout for the young folks back in the day. Not the house so much, but on the land and in some of the shanty houses. This according to Rita Gray. She is the only person I know of who actually walked through the house.   In 1961, the house was sold and dismantled.  Two homes were constructed from the lumber elsewhere.  The remaining land was sold in 1976.  

The small towns once known as Pinebloom, Leighton, and Leilaton would become part of Atkinson county when it was formed in 1918.  They are a simple spots in the road today. 


I hope this gives you a small taste of B.B. Gray and Pinebloom.  I know for me personally, it solves a lot of the mystery and really makes me proud to be a descendant of such an interesting, well-respected and driven man.  
But, the story doesn't end here. What about all of those children?  What happened to them?  Stay tuned, their stories will be coming soon!!

Until then,
Happy Hunting in your Own Family Tree
Melody


Sources: Rita and Rebecca Gray Collection 

familysearch.org


My own family collection and photos



Thursday, November 9, 2017

Gallery of Honor: Saluting the Veterans in our Family

Honoring those family members and ancestors who served or are serving in the military.  It's a long and proud legacy for our family.  We salute you all and thank you for your service!!



Revolutionary War

A 5th great uncle of the Groton CT Grays.  1740 - 1813.  Buried in Groton.   Worth noting as well:  Elijah Gray, an uncle to Benjamin also served in the Revolutionary War, was wounded/captured and died in prison in N.J.

The Civil War

I found it interesting that within my own family branch, there are ancestors that fought for the north and the south during the war between the states.  Further research showed that their regiments may have crossed paths in Manassas, VA at the second battle of Bull Run.   Here are their stories:

Peter Devlin

170th NY Regiment, also known as the Irish Regiment
Peter would have been a 3rd great uncle (by marriage) to my husband Mike.  Peter and his wife, Catherine emigrated to America in the 1850's from Antrim Ireland.  After the war, Peter returned to NY and they had one daughter, Mary, who married Mike's ggreat Uncle Edward McAuliffe.  

This is Peter Devlin's discharge paper.  Pretty cool, eh? His regiment was at Appomattox when Lee surrendered and the war ended.  Peter would return to NY from here.

Daniel C. Paulk

49th Regiment, Georgia Infantry

Daniel C Paulk was my 3rd great grandfather on my grandma Ruby's side.  His is a sad story.  He was a farmer in rural south Georgia with a wife Jane, a young daughter Catherine, and a baby on the way. He signed up in August of 1862.  His regiment would make its way to Winchester, VA.  The weather was very cold and the soldiers were ill-equipped for the conditions.  Many died of measles or some other malady.  Daniel was one of those.  He died on November 2, 1862.  He is buried in the Stonewall Confederate Cemetery in Winchester, VA.  Unfortunately, because of poor record keeping, his headstone is mis-marked as are many from his regiment.  
Jane would give birth to a son, Daniel, in April of 1863. Sadly, he did not survive.
To read the history of this regiment, I highly recommend the book:


Gravesite of Daniel C Paulk at the Stonewall Confederate Cemetery, Winchester VA.  Note that headstone name is incorrect.


George R. Asbell

48th Regiment, Co. G, Georgia Infantry
"The Slappy Guards"

George Asbell is my great grandmother, Mamie Giddens' father.  His brothers, Andrew, John, and Stephen also served in this regiment.  This regiment saw 22 battles, including Gettysburg, where 55% of the men were killed or injured.
  

Headstone of George Asbell in Twiggs Co. GA

WWI


Fred Oliver Gray, son of gg grandparents BB and Ellen Gray, U.S. Navy. Buried at Fort Bliss Cemetery, TX. 


The Greatest Generation 

Paul Rouse, U.S. Navy, brother of my paternal grandmother

My father-in-law PFC Edward McAuliffe Army AirCorps WWII

Mst. Sgt James McAuliffe US Marines, WWII and Korea. Uncle Jim is buried at
Arlington National Cemetery in Washington DC


 Sgt. William (Billie) Gibbs Served in Army and Marines WWII (uncle)
         
Carl Gibbs (uncle)
My Dad: Airman First Class Lowell Giddens, USAF

Earl McMillan, U.S. Navy (uncle)
Glenn Giddens, U.S. Marines. (uncle)  Apologies for poor condition of photo,
 but it was found in my grandfather's wallet after many years.

                        Honorable Mention:   Robert Giddens, US Army (military pictures unavailable)



1970's to Present

James A.Black,  LTC US Army Retired. Photo is Vietnam 1971. (cousin)

Wayne Carter, Vietnam (cousin)


 Cmdr Jan Smith (L brother-in-law), US Navy


My brother, Sgt. Tom Giddens, US Air Force

My hubby, Petty Officer Michael McAuliffe, US Navy

Monty Ward US Navy (cousin)



Lt.Cmdr. Stephen Smith, US Navy currently serving in California (nephew)

Honorable Mention: Gordon McAuliffe, US Navy; Jimmy Walker Army  (military photos unavailable)


NOTE:  This blog entry can be edited at any time.  If you have a family member who has or is serving in the military and would like them included, please do not hesitate to contact me.  Any information or details that need to be corrected or added will be welcome as well.



Sincere Thanks to All Who Served.  
We are Forever Grateful for Your Service.


















Sunday, September 3, 2017

Our Beloved Ruby Lee Rouse



Ruby Lee Rouse

It is a fortunate thing when someone touches your life in such a way that  memories sustain you throughout your life.  For me, that special person was  my grandmother, Ruby Rouse Giddens.  She was wise, loving, kind and held a quiet strength that carried her through some pretty difficult times. In other words, she was a great role model for her family.   I hope this edition will convey how special Ruby was to everyone who knew her.


I wasn't sure what I would uncover for her ancestry.  I am happy to report that I have been able to uncover quite a bit.  The interesting thing is that of all the loved ones I have researched so far, Ruby's family has the largest number of different families intertwined to create her story.  Kind of like a patchwork quilt. How fitting.
 Those who knew Ruby, know she was quite the quilter, so why not tell her story as if it were a quilt? The first pieces of this quilt will be items and documents I have found online or in books.  The other pieces of the quilt will be photos, conversations, and memories provided by family members .  All of these will be sewn together to create a biographical quilt I will call:

 "Ruby's Quilt"
A Patchwork of a Life Well-Lived


Ruby's Father's Heritage:
Rouse
Rouse Name Meaning
    English: nickname for a person with red hair, from Middle English, Old French rous ‘red(-haired)’ (Latin russ(e)us). Americanized spelling of German Raus.

Source: Dictionary of American Family Names ©2013, Oxford University Press


The Rouse family can be traced back to Ruby's great grandfather, Joseph B. Rouse, Jr. (abt. 1820 - 1888). Joseph married twice.  His first wife was Nancy Burton (abt 1824 - abt 1854).  The 1850 census shows that they lived in Macon, GA.  By that time, they had 5 children: James Joseph, Nancy Margaret, Elizabeth, Martha, and Susan.  Jessie and Jonathan (Ruby's grandfather) would be born in 1851 and 1853, respectively. 

1850 census.  Family of Joseph B. Rouse with first wife Nancy Burton

By 1860, the Rouse family would live in Sumter, GA with Joseph's 2nd wife, Sarah J. Contin(sp)?.  Some family records state that they married around 1856.  Sarah would bring 4 children to the marriage, James H., Mary E, William B., and Henry O.  Joseph and Sarah then expanded the family with 4 more children: Fannie, Robert, Emma, and Ida.  Since Joseph B. was a farmer, I guess he had to keep the farmhands coming!  

1860 census.  J.B. would be married to his second wife Sarah J Contin(sp?)

In 1875,  Joseph and Nancy's youngest son, Jonathan, married Mary Elva Pounds.  Together, they had 8 children: Claudius, James Joseph (J.J.), Eva, Mela, Masy E, Fannie, Roy and Jonah.  The 1900 census shows that the family lived in Dougherty, GA. 
1880 census shows Jonathan and Elva living with her parents James and Nancy Pounds. 

1900 census shows the Rouse family living in Daugherty, GA.  Eldest son Claudius is listed as head of household.  It is believed that Jonathan died around 1888.

Ruby's Mother's Heritage:

 Fletcher
Fletcher is a surname of English, Scottish, and Irish origin. The name is an occupational name for an arrowsmith or seller of arrows, derived from the Middle English, Old English "Fulcher" or Old French flech(i)er (in turn from Old French fleche "arrow").
Fletcher (surname) - Wikipedia
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fletcher_(surname)

John Fletcher's Ancestry:
Fletcher Family History
source: History of Irwin County by J.B. Clements pg.418. William was Ruby's great great grandfather
According to the book, History of Irwin County by J. B. Clements, John W. Fletcher, Jr. (1861-1942) was born in Irwin county to John W. Fletcher Sr. and his 2nd wife, Martha Slaughter (1835-1891). They were descendants of William Fletcher, explained here:

John W. Fletcher, Sr. was Ruby's maternal great grandfather.  His first wife was Mary Ellen Paulk.  His 2nd wife was Martha Slaughter, not Parson. source: History of Irwin County by J.B. Clements, pg.432
 
Picture of a John Fletcher and wife.  Not sure if this is John W. Fletcher Sr, but he is kin.  FYI, Micajah Paulk (#3) is an ancestor of Ruby's maternal grandmother, Catherine as well as my mother's family Gibbs.  All Pioneers of the area. The family quilt keeps getting bigger!



1870 census in the household of John W. and Martha Fletcher. I love reading these, especially when they list lots of other family members who lived nearby.


Ruby's grandfather John Fletcher, Jr was a farmer who raised cattle and crops on his farm in Berrien County.  John married Catherine Paulk (1862-1940) on    April 12, 1883. They had 2 daughters: Sarah and Margaret.

Ruby's grandfather, John W. Fletcher, Jr


Catherine Paulk's Ancestry:

Paulk
    Variant spelling of Scottish Polk, a reduced form of Pollock. Shortened form of German Paulke, a pet form Paul.
Source: Dictionary of American Family Names ©2013, Oxford University Pressk's Ancestry:


Catherine Paulk's grandfather and grandmother were Thomas and Nancy Henderson Paulk

source:Irwin County History by J.B. Clements pg 426

Catherine was the only living child of Daniel C. Paulk (1837-1862) and Margaret Gaskins (1835-1900). They also had an infant son Daniel, who died at birth on April 15, 1863. 
Gravesite of Infant Son of Daniel C. and Margaret Gaskins Paulk  source:findagrave.com
Gravesite of Margaret Gaskins Paulk, Catherine's mother. source: findagrave.com

Daniel C. Paulk served in the 50th GA Regiment of the Confederate Army.  He mustered out in August of 1862 and his regiment went to VA.  He died of 'disease', possibly measles in Winchester, VA on November 2, 1862, leaving a then pregnant wife with a small daughter, Catherine.   He is buried at the Stonewall Confederate Cemetery in Winchester, VA.  Unfortunately, his headstone is mismarked as are several from this regiment.  One of these days, I hope to visit his gravesite.
Daniel C. Paulk headstone incorrectly spelled at Stonewall Confederate Cemetery, Winchester, VA

 
Vindication for me.  There are so many errors about Daniel C. Paulk online.  He had a cousin also named Daniel Paulk who served in the 49th Regiment and died in 1863 of wounds suffered in the war.  The overlap is overwhelming.  This one paragraph states what I suspected to be true as far as his correct burial site.                                                                   source: Wiregrass to Appomattox by James W. Parrish


On a separate note, to learn more about Daniel's regiment, I highly recommend the book Wiregrass to Appomattox: The Untold Story of GA 50th Regiment, CSA by James W. Parrish.  It is interesting and eye opening.  


Now, where were we?  Oh yeah, Daniel Paulk's heritage.
Parents of Daniel Paulk, Thomas and Nancy Henderson Paulk. photo courtesy of Derek Ennis Veal


Daniel was the son of Thomas Paulk (1812-1894) and Nancy Henderson (1810-1901).    One of Thomas and Nancy's children was Mahala Henderson Paulk, Daniel's sister.  She would marry my mother's 3rd g greatfather, James Gibbs, Sr.  This is the connection of those two families intertwined with ours.


Gaskins and McMillan

                  Margaret Gaskins' (Catherine's mother) parents were                                William (1804-1880) and Jane McMillan Gaskins (1816-1894).  

source:findagrave.com


 Jane's parents were Daniel McMillan (1782-1838) and Margaret Smith(1785-1819).  They were from N.C. and died in Irwin Co. 

Daniel McMillan gravesite source:findagrave.com


Ruby's Own Family is Added to the Quilt

Ruby's Parents: James Joseph(JJ) and Sarah Fletcher Rouse

Ruby Lee Rouse was born to Sarah Fletcher (1884- 1912) and James Joseph "J.J." Rouse (1878-1964)  on March 15, 1910 in Alapaha GA.  Sarah and JJ had 3 children:  James Paul 1908-1962, Ruby 1910-2003, baby James Aldine 1912.

1910 Census of JJ and Sarah Rouse with daughters Ruby and Margaret

Ruby's Birthplace in Alapaha GA.  Photo courtesy of Gail Giddens Mosely
 
Ruby's mother Sarah Fletcher Rouse photo courtesy of Gail Giddens Mosely
The story of Ruby's young childhood is a sad one.  Shortly after her mother gave birth to James Aldine, she hemorrhaged and died shortly after his birth.  Baby James would only live to be a few months old.  Circumstances of his death are not factually known, but some stories state he may have been malnourished. 


Sarah and James are buried in the Jane Gaskins Family Cemetery, Berrien Co. Photo source:findagrave.com
 By 1917, J.J. remarried.  His second wife was Lula McPhaul. This WWI draft card shows they lived in Enigma, GA.  My father remembers Ruby saying that she and Uncle Paul had some schooling in Enigma.  
1917 WWI draft card for JJ Rouse.  Shows place of residence as Enigma with next of kin being 2nd wife, Lula
It is not known when or under what circumstances, but Paul and Ruby would eventually return to their grandparents, John W. and Catherine Fletcher, and be raised by them on their farm in Berrien County.  
J.J. and Lula would have two children, Elva and Joseph.


1930 Census shows JJ and Lula lived in Ocilla, GA
 At some point the family moved to Jacksonville, FL.  J.J. worked for the Florida-Times Union.  Their son Joseph would work in NYC as a visual merchandiser for large department stores. He would eventually return to Tifton in his latter years.
J.J. and Lula are buried in Riverside Memorial Cemetery, Jacksonville FL
JJ Rouse grave marker in Jacksonville, FL. photo: findagrave.com